Grief and Trauma Counseling,
EMDR Therapy and
EMDR Intensive Retreats
in Batavia, IL
Creating space for healing, growth, and transformation
You didn't expect your life to look like this.
You might be feeling intense sadness, longing, and hopelessness. You might be feeling insecure, disillusioned, and overwhelmed. You probably had dreams for a future but now all you might have is heartbreak. Most have never felt such pain and grief before. Maybe you've always felt confident to handle your problems but now you feel depressed and anxious not sure how to understand your feelings and how to make any of this any better.
Life doesn't have to
stay this way.
We can help.
We specialized in grief and trauma by using a compassionate person-centered approach and effective treatment approaches including EMDR Therapy.
A person-centered approach means we take the time to understand each client's unique experience and offer tailor-made approaches that address each person's situation and goals.
Our clients are better able to understand and cope with their feelings, experience more confidence, have rich and meaningful relationships, and live lives that are more aligned with their values.
When we are grieving we can feel lost, overwhelmed, and unable to see a future. We understand that not all grief comes as the result of the death of a loved one.
We also experience grief when we lose a job, get divorced, or end a relationship. We grieve when the future we hoped for and worked hard for is lost.
Clients work with us when they want to gain a greater understanding of their grief and learn how to manage their often confusing and conflicted feelings.
Oftentimes, our past hurts and distressing or disturbing events get in the way of feeling safe and connected with others. This often looks like unhealthy relationships, feeling anxious, or depressed, and unexplained health concerns or issues.
We understand trauma as our mind, body, and spirit's way of trying to make sense of overwhelming life experiences. We know that traumatic life experiences include assault, natural disasters, and violence.
We also know that we experience trauma from childhood abuse and neglect and discrimination.
Clients reach out to us when they feel overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety, depressed mood, and ruminating thoughts. They don't feel connected to others anymore and don't feel safe alone or with others.
You are here to do incredible things. Brave things. Bold things.
Things that only you can do.
Our Approach to Healing, Growth,
Many do not understand grief. This is because our western society is uncomfortable with sadness and emotional pain. We are an emotionally avoidant culture.
We like fixes and we love and crave the "quick fix". Unfortunately, this leaves grievers confused, alone, and oftentimes overwhelmed by their grief.
Common misunderstandings about grief:
Grief is NOT something one gets over
Grief does NOT end
Grief does NOT follow stages
There is NO going back to "normal"
So where does this leave grievers? Are they doomed to a life filled with loneliness, longing, sadness, and confusion? No, we do not believe so.
We've journeyed with enough grievers to know this is not true and doesn't need to be a griever's life.
We wholeheartedly believe in the mind, body, and soul's ability to heal when provided the space, acceptance, and the right tools.
Through compassionate listening and validation, we help each griever understand their grief and identify their grief needs.
We help grievers unpack their loss so that they can develop an understanding of what this loss means to them and how to (re)discover a sense of meaning and purpose in their life.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy is one of the most widely researched treatments and has been shown to be very effective.
It is different from more traditional psychotherapy approaches that are commonly called "talk therapies" such as Cognitive Behavior Therapy.
EMDR Therapy is founded on the understanding that the brain, along with the rest of the body, is always programmed to heal.
EMDR Therapy allows for the part of the brain that stores memories to do its job, which is to adaptively process experiences/memories.
EMDR will not make memories go away, it will not make pain magically disappear, and is not a quick fix.
However, it will allow for the mind, body, and soul to finally begin the healing process in a way that has been life-changing for so many.
Workshops + Retreats
The journey towards growth and transformation is one that begins with healing trauma but often requires soul-searching to [re]discover how to live a wholehearted life with courage, compassion, and connection.
We believe it's not enough to survive our hurts and losses. We believe it's not only possible but it's imperative that we learn how to thrive.
In order to develop resiliency, we need true, authentic connections with others. Our workshops and retreats offer life-changing opportunities to allow our beautiful souls to be seen and listened to.
You already are your own answer to every question, your own path to the future, your own light along the way.
The little voice in your heart already knows what's true. Join us for a Soul Shine workshop or retreat and learn that you already know how to hear it.
Schedule a consultation
Schedule a consultation today. We'll answer any questions you have and you can be sure we're a good fit.
Get the support you need to begin your healing journey.
Together, we will help you develop a greater awareness and insight into your concerns and goals. We'll develop the tools you need to heal and support you all along your journey.
Experience personal growth, and transformation
You will feel hopeful for your future and have a greater sense of meaning and purpose in your life. You'll be better able to handle the invariable ups and downs that will come.